I recently received a message which included this: “Your profile doesn’t indicate how strict you are Mistress” I paused for a moment because I feel like I do indicate what type of Mistress I am on My website.
However, when I had a good look, I couldn’t really find anything… clearly, it’s time for another post!
So if you want a very quick answer as to ‘what type of Mistress’ I am, I can answer it pretty quickly by saying:
- I am definitely at the softer end of the spectrum.
- I enjoy just about every aspect of kink.
- I take kink really seriously, but I enjoy having a LOT of fun.
- I expect a lot of respect from My subs.
- I don’t enjoy brattiness, I like subservience.
- If you piss Me off, I’m more likely to get rid of you than punish you.
- I give a few chances, but once I’ve made My mind up, that’s it.
Much like everything in life though, a few sentences don’t really explain a complex set of thought processes/relationships, etc.
So, if you want to know even more about Me, read on.
I practice Safe, Sane, and Consensual. That means YOU decide what you will and won’t do, YOU decide what you’re comfortable with, and what your limits are. If you tell Me: ‘I have no limits’ I won’t session with you. End of conversation.
A lot of people ask Me what I enjoy. I LOVE getting dressed up in sexy outfits. I love being worshipped. I don’t really mind what kinkiness we get up to, I enjoy most kinks, but I enjoy a session when you’re enjoying yourself. I ADORE chastity (This needs a post on its own), the thought of having total control is lovely!
What I don’t enjoy: Scat. Severe beatings that draw lots of blood. Brats. That’s pretty much all I can think of really!
Our relationship will change as we get to know each other, so I think it’s only fair that we talk through how things will progress…
First few sessions.
In the very beginning, you will get a fairly easygoing session. The things we discuss in our initial phone call and agree upon will be what we do. If you’re really new you’ll be instructed on how to behave in the dungeon, but we won’t push too far.
After we’ve sessioned together several times.
You won’t realise it, but I will be constantly testing, probing, and suggesting things to you. I will take note of how you respond to My touch, the things I say, what I wear.
Slowly but surely each session will become more tailored to not only what you say you want, but what your mind wants, but you can’t say out loud.
Everything is still consensual and ALWAYS WILL BE… but I will definitely be nudging your soft limits and pushing you into new directions.
After we’ve sessioned together a LOT.
You’ll be mine.
You’ll know it and you’ll give in completely. You’ll do what I say willingly. You’ll worship the ground I walk on and I will LOVE it.
Your hard limits will always be respected, but on the whole, I’ve found that after a little while ‘hard limits’ become ‘soft limits’.
Thankfully though, I am a caring Mistress. My sub’s mental and physical well-being are My absolute priority.
This is where the magic really happens. When I know you, you know Me and we will come together in our sessions and instinctively know what we both need in our sessions together.
In conclusion:
I guess like anything in life, the more you do it, the more that you get to know a person, the better it gets.
Our first session together will be utterly mind-blowing… When we’ve sessioned together for a year, every hour we spend together will seem a second. I will touch you physically and mentally in ways you didn’t believe possible.
You will be mine and give yourself to Me willingly. You will give Me everything if I asked.
Most importantly we will be in a relationship together. Our relationship and the way we both act will be unique.
So, it’s very difficult to say exactly ‘What type of Mistress’ I am.
It’s a journey we need to undertake together and the people we are at the end won’t be the two people that meet at the beginning. Who we are when we are together will be completely different to anyone else we interact with.
But rest assured, if we get that far, it will be beautiful.
